If you, like me, cherish traditions and find yourself purchasing an advent calendar every year, why not shake things up this year with an Advent calendar for couples that gets your heart racing. Spice up your routine as the nights grow longer and create memorable winter evenings.

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DIY Advent Calendars for Couples

In my opinion, there’s truly nothing that compares to crafting a couple’s advent calendar. It’s a delightful, intimate way to count down the days to Christmas, brimming with surprises that can bring you and your partner closer and sprinkle a bit of excitement into your everyday life! Have you been yearning for the perfect opportunity to introduce a dash of playful naughtiness, perhaps? This is your answer, allowing you to bypass the shyness and awkwardness of a direct conversation.

How to Create Your Personalised Advent Calendar

  1. Decide the Days: Simply agree on who will open the odd days and who will open the even days. This way, every day holds a new surprise for one of you, keeping the anticipation and excitement alive throughout the month!
  2. Buy a ready made kit like these; Christmas Advent Calendar
  3. Fill it with personalised gifts – find ideas below.

DIY Couple’s Advent Calendar Ideas

Remember, you only need 12 gifts, so once you’ve included some of their favourite things, a dash of playful naughtiness and a sprinkle of thoughtful gestures to show your love and appreciation, you’re all set! Here are some ideas to get your creative juices flowing and help you curate a memorable and balanced Advent calendar for your partner.



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Thoughtful Ideas

Looking to create a meaningful and memorable advent calendar? Here are a few inspiring ideas to help you get started;

  • Favourite Chocolates: Sweet treats that your partner loves
  • Favourite Drink: Whether its an alcoholic miniature or coffee beans, add a cute little note ‘This one is on me’
  • Candles and a playlist: Treat your partner to a night of relaxation. Run the bath, light sensual candles and create a playlist they can listen to whilst they unwind
  • Love Notes: Express your feelings with sweet and heartfelt messages
  • Date night at home ideas: Explore our curated list of date night ideas at home or creative date ideas at home. Mark the night they’re due to open this on your joint calendar as ‘date night’ and prepare everything you need for your chosen activity. They’ll love your attention to detail and the effort you put into crafting a unique and memorable evening.

Playful Ideas

If you’re looking to spark deeper connection and excitement, explore these adventurous advent calendar ideas.

  • Sexual Games: Small, fun games that you can play together. Perhaps a suggested sexual position of the day, Ann Summer’s Kama Sutra cards or handcuffs and satin blindfold.
  • Sexy Underwear: Spice things up with some new and exciting lingerie. You can’t go wrong with a lacey thong/brief or designer boxers
  • Sex Toy: Small and discreet enough for a travel purse, why not treat her to an Ann Summers bullet vibrator
  • Text Play: Inform your partner that, on this special day, they will be showered with enticing messages. (Ensure you are available to send them on the selected date and consider planning your messages in advance to maintain the element of surprise)
  • Massage Oil: For a relaxing and intimate evening together, try Love honey’s kissable erotic massage oil
  • Find more ideas via our blogs; Sexy Date Night Games, Sexy Date Night
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Advent Calendars for Couples

Creating a personalised advent calendar can indeed be a time-consuming task, but there are plenty of pre-made options available that can offer a variety of surprises for couples looking to celebrate the festive season together. Here’s a selection of tantalising, romantic and tasty advent calendars for couples to consider:

  • Couple Advent Calendar; A card based calendar, composed of 24 sexy games and challenges. Price: £7.99
  • Christmas Film Advent Calendar, Each card shows some trivia or a quote from the film. What a nice thing to do with your partner each day. Price £5.99
  • RITUALS Advent Calendar, Indulge in a couple’s massage with Rituals wonderful scents.From £92
  • Lovehoney Advent Calendar; A 24 piece gift set for couples play. Feel the anticipation as you discover your favourite adult toys. Open the box with your partner for shared excitement all month long. Price: £149

Premium Advent Calendars

If you love to treat yourself, why not indulge in one of these Premium Advent Calendars? Filled with luxurious surprises, they’ll make every day leading up to Christmas feel extra special.

Alcohol Advent Calendars

Elevate the countdown with Alcohol Advent Calendars, a cheeky way for couples to enjoy a daily surprise of their favourite drinks and make each day of the season a little more festive!

Regardless of which couples’ advent calendar you decide on, our wish for you is that it brings joy, laughter, and a touch of excitement to each day of the festive season. Whether it’s through shared experiences, indulgent treats, or cosy moments, we hope your chosen calendar adds a sprinkle of romance and a dash of delight to your winter evenings.

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