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Dating apps are everywhere in the UK from Hinge to Raya, we’re spoilt for choice. But let’s be honest: endless swiping isn’t always the dream. Sometimes, you just want sparks in real life. That’s exactly why I tested five of the most popular UK dating apps for you, and also why I run singles nights and a singles running club in Hertfordshire (because real chemistry beats emojis every time 😉).
Dating apps aren’t what they used to be. With 1.4 million Brits quitting them last year and usage dropping 16%, it’s clear that people are fed up with endless swiping and ghosting. So, what’s the alternative? Keep reading, because I’ve found a better way to meet your match, in real life.
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Dating app 1: Hinge
Hinge has ben my most successful dating app to date, and what’s better is that it’s free!
It’s certainly a visual app with handsome men by the bucket load. The Dating profiles offer little written information about users, instead using 2-3 prompts to questions like ‘A shower thought I’ve had recently’ or ‘This year I want to’.
What I like about Hinge:
- The use of video clips. You can really see someone’s personality shine through. Also the environment they are recording from can tell us a lot. (Men, no messy bedrooms, LOL)
- The use of voice prompts. It’s amazing how we can instantly be attracted to users from a very short and sexy sound message.
- It’s free! Upgrade options are available for profile boosts and gifting roses (the equivalent of a super like).
Dating app 2: Tinder
There’s no doubt about it, Tinder is best known for hook ups, but with 5 million users it’s also the most popular dating app in the UK.
However big, I was sceptical about it until I attended my cousin’s wedding last year, where one swipe right resulted in her meeting the man of her dreams. So, the very next day, I downloaded it. Still in Cyprus, I was surprised to receive likes from what I can only explain as Greek Gods that were located within just a few miles. I had no idea the dating app took your current location, but I see the advantages.
I paid about £30 for 1 month’s subscription as unfortunately Tinder won’t show you your likes without a paid subscription. Back in the UK, within the first few hours I kid you not, I received 900 likes. The sheer size of this app is immense! That being said, likes were from all over the world, but don’t panic as there are easy to use filters to control age, location etc.
Can I use Tinder for free?
Yes, if you’re happy to do all the chasing, then it is possible to have a free Tinder account, but you will lose the ability to look at any likes, and some of the feel-good factor of using a dating app.
Verdict: Be prepared for very raunchy messages, lots of men wanting sex, fake profiles (as with all dating apps) and let’s just say profile photos that might make you blush. It’s main purpose after all is for easy meet-ups.
Dating app 3: Facebook Dating
Sadly, with Facebook Dating I just found fake profile after fake profile. If you’re going to use this platform, you’ll need to have your wits about you. I was so naïve starting out that I managed to get scammed.
I wasn’t as attracted to the users and the only date I did get out of it stood me up.
One feature that does make it safer is that it recommends dating users who are friends with the same people you know, so background checks are easier.
Other than that, sadly my experience with the Facebook dating app was very poor.
Dating app 4: Match
I subscribed to Match for 6 months and it wasn’t cheap. The app prides itself on attracting older users who are looking for romance/long term relationships. Setting up your profile takes longer, because you are required to add hobbies/ interests in order to help match you with people of similar taste.
All of my suggested match profiles I found were 8+ years older, who I sadly wasn’t attracted too. Their professions were generally very good though, so an option if you’re after a sugar daddy LOL. Often the locations were miles away too, and I wasn’t about to re-locate that’s for sure.
Verdict; I think I was unlucky with the options in my area. The idea of matching people on interests is definitely the better approach.
Dating app 5: Playdate
Designed for single parents, the app was in its early days when I used it, and I experienced a few technical issues, but I think it has potential if they can get user numbers up and bugs fixed.
It’s free, and a very simple app to navigate and match with users. I did meet with one dad who was on his first date post separation, and it was all a bit too raw for me. However, if you’re a single parent, and fearful of using a dating app, this would be a good one to ease you into dating slowly.
Beyond Apps: Why Dating Events Are Back
Swiping can be fun… until it isn’t. Ghosting, mixed signals, or endless texting that leads nowhere, we’ve all been there. That’s why more singles are turning back to offline dating events: singles nights, speed dating, and activity-based socials.
- Instant chemistry check, no waiting for replies.
- No catfishing, what you see is what you get.
- Fun atmosphere, real conversations, real laughs, real connections.
If you’re ready to swap notifications for genuine moments, check out our upcoming Be Dating Beautiful events in Hertfordshire
Staying Safe on Dating Apps
Whatever app you decide to go with, please be safe! Here’s my top 10 tips for staying safe whilst using dating apps:
- Having been catfished again and again, I now believe that all profiles are fake unless proven otherwise. Early in conversations I ask matches for a video call so that can prove they are the person in their pictures. If they’re not willing to do it, it’s usually because it’s not them!
- This sounds excessive, but if someone looks too good to be true, they probably are. Often scammers use stock photos so run their profile photos through Google image search to see what comes up.
- Don’t give too many personal details to matches. This starts from the moment you set up your profile…i.e. don’t use your surname in your username. Protect yourself from Fraud!
- Don’t go on a date until you’ve video called or at least spoke to someone on the phone.
- When going on a first date, meet somewhere very public.
- Don’t share a lift to collect your date.
- Tell a friend where and when your date is.
- If you don’t feel safe on your date, most restaurants and bars support the ‘Ask Angela’ campaign. By asking for Angela at the bar you’re alerting staff that you feel vulnerable, and they will ensure you get home safely.
- If you find yourself in a toxic conversation online, you don’t owe it to anyone to put up with that crap! All dating sites have the ability to block users and report their behaviour.
- Trust your gut. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t be afraid to ask more questions!
The Harsh Reality of Dating Apps
- 79% of singles say they are burned out by dating apps.
- 63% believe meeting in person leads to stronger relationships.
- Only 12% of online matches result in long-term relationships.
So, if dating apps aren’t delivering, what’s the alternative? In Real Life Connections!
It’s time to stop scrolling and start living. Be Dating Beautiful creates unforgettable experiences where singles meet naturally, through adventure, travel, fitness, and fun social events. Forget awkward speed dating and ghosting, this is dating done right.
🔥 Ready to meet someone amazing while doing what you love? It’s time to Find your Tribe! Check out our Singles Events today!
Sources of Stats: Dating app decline, Dating app burnout, women fall out of love with dating apps.
Q&A: My Experience With Online Dating Apps
Q: What’s been your best app experience?
A: Hinge, hands down. The prompts and voice notes gave me a better sense of who someone really was.
Q: Have you had any dating disasters?
A: Oh yes. From being catfished to being stood up, I’ve seen it all. It’s why I’m such a big advocate for meeting in person.
Q: Any advice for online dating newbies?
A: Always video call before meeting. Meet in a public place. Don’t be afraid to ask for help! And don’t take ghosting personally, it’s a reflection of them, not you.
Q: Why do you think real-life events are better?
A: You can’t fake energy. Chemistry is instant, and you meet people as they truly are. No filters, no games.
